May 25, 2009

Make Room for More

Filed under: Soapbox, Love & Relationships

*I’m not sure who all these posts are for today, but I trust that God will lead the right eyes to this space. Be blessed.*

This is what you need to do. Stop expecting something from someone s/he is not willing to give you. Holding on to a hope that will not be realized is not helping you. You can even stop praying for direction for the relationship because the answer is staring you in the face–you just don’t want to accept it.

The longer you hold on to something that will never be–just accept what you are in this picture–the longer you withhold from yourself the good things that God has in store. Turn on Bonnie Raitt and listen until you have bawled your eyes out–you can’t make someone love you if they don’t. After Bonnie, get up, get out, and decide to live the rest of your life.

Carrying hurt that you played a part in will be your choice. Remember that no one has deceived you but you. You were never promised love or a rose garden. You were consistently shown inconsistency of thought and feeling. Immaturity was apparent early on, but your vision was blurred by the “good guy/good girl” phenom. Own your part in the mess and MOVE ON!!!!

Better is waiting for you. Love is waiting for you. God desires to love you through someone else, but you won’t let your own simple self get out of the way. Find the strength to let it go, and then, let God fill your life with the love, joy, and laughter that he’s been desiring for quite some time. He wants to make new love with and for you.

Find the strength…
Find the way….
to…
MAKE ROOM FOR MORE.

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  1. So true A!!!!

    Now my question is, what brought this up? what inspired u to write this post NOW??? its tale telling i must say:-p

    I actually have a friend in “real life” who needs to make room for more. As is typical for me, whatever I can’t say so neatly in person, I tend to work out here on the blog first until all of the tactlessness is gone. Life being what it is, I just figured it might help someone who passes through here–not that a whole lot of people do. :)

    Comment by Shazza — May 28, 2009 @ 1:31 p

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